Thursday, July 26, 2007

Updates, Book Reviews, and a Sweet Article

I've been at the hospital the last three days. It's just about a half out ride, which isn't bad considering this hospital is closer to my house than it is to Grandma's. The nurses all say she is doing great. Poor Grandma just wants to be left alone! She could not believe that the morning after the surgery they wanted her up and about! She kept telling them she was dizzy and nauseous, but they knew that she needed to be up and about. When mom and I visited yesterday she was very tired and having trouble catching her breath. She had been to rehab, been moved from the chair to the bed, had her bedding changed, and then they were preparing to get her in the shower. She just wanted to sleep, I know. It was hard to see her that way, hurting and tired. I got home around 4:00 yesterday afternoon, kissed the kids and went to bed. I did get up and go to church which was well worth the trip and refreshing. Grandma is scheduled to go home Friday or Saturday and she can't wait.
Don't you just love it when you pick up a book, not really knowing what it is, but you fall in love it? I found one of those in the piles of books that my girlfriend gave me before she left for Texas. A Walk Across America by Peter Jenkins is just one of those books for me. I picked up this old yellowed paperback and just thought it looked like a keeper; a man with a backpack and a dog that decided to walk across America to decide if the Country was worth living in any longer. He was disillusioned in the early 1970's and set out to find good in the world. I figured it would be an interesting read just to see what life was like as he encountered it. It turned out to be a book I could not put down and one that had twists and turns that I never saw coming but touched me deeply. I am not sure if you can find his books in stores, but here is his website: http://peterjenkins.com/ . I was pleased to find that the way of living he began in the 70's has touched his life up to now.
Finally, an article from the August 2007 Better Homes and Gardens:
The New Backyard Fence
Growing up, many people watched their parents chat with neighbors over the backyard fence. But few of us have such opportunities today. That doesn't mean tthe backyard fence has disappeared; it has just taken on an electronic glow. Recent research by the Pew Internet and American Life Project, a nonprofit Washington D.C. think tank, show that Americans who join online communities have, on average 23 "very close " online relationships, and 27 "somewhat close" relationships. And nearly a quarter of those relationships were with poeple whom they considered to be friends. What's more, instead of the popular image of a lonely person hunkered down in fromnt of a screen, the Pew study found that those who make contact online are 50 % more likely to have in-person contacts as well than those who never touch a computer. Computers, it seems are simply another way to make even more friends.
Thanks for visiting me over the fence!!

11 comments:

Day4plus said...

My thoughts are with you and your Grandmother. Hoping things turn out for the best.
I read peter Jenkins book years ago and really loved it, wishing i could travel the way he did. An interesting insight to people and places. We are in the most part a kind nation. MB

Nancy Jo said...

Poor Grandma, can't believe they are letting her come home so soon, but maybe she can get some rest, you sure don't get that at the hospital.
Yes finding a good book is always such a good thing, I will be starting a new one tonight, hope its a winner.
Get some rest yourself!!
NANCY JO

smilnsigh said...

Oh I hope Grandma is feeling better, very soon. Being home will be wonderful.

The Net as the old 'over the backyard fence.' I love it!

Mari-Nanci

Little Penpen said...

Beemoosie, I've read Peter Jenkins' book and loved it too! I actually lived in the town he mentioned, early in the book, where the people treated him so poorly. (Robbinsville) Of course, I lived there long after his trip through there, but I can believe every word he wrote about it. I hope Grandma gets along well.

TO BECOME said...

I feel for your Grandma. She is very blest to have you and your mama. Maybe it will be soon that she will be like her old self again. I will be praying for her. Have a good weekend if you can. connie from Texas

Unknown said...

You'd be a wonderful over the fence neighbor! Hope your grandma is doing better, sending blessings your way!

Aunt Jenny said...

I am going to put that book on my reading list for sure!! I am reading "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" right now.
I will sure keep your grandma and your family in my prayers. I bet she will be glad to get home. Hospitals arn't very restful places are they??
I am glad I met you "over this fence!"

Gretchen said...

May the Lord continue to heal Grandma, and give you rest and refreshment, Bonnie. I'm glad you cuddled up with a good book. :)

Ellen said...

Dear Bee,
How is your Grandma? Will be doubling up on my prayers for ((your family)).

I did my whole runaway thing ::::Shenandoah I loooong to hear ya...away you rolling river::::
way back in the 70's and ended up in Olanta SC making jokes about Atlanta GA...somebody gave me that book for my birthday...and I still got Jenkins here somewhere.
The circle is unbroken... and so is the fence gate...from me swinging on it as I push my way in here for a visit! So happy to be all aglow in your electronic fence...even if it makes me think of a bug zapper...bee buzzing off for now! Catch ya later gator!

Mrs. Goodneedle said...

Prayers for your Grandma, it's so hard to see our loved ones pushed, even if it's for their own good, we'd have the tendency to be much too lenient with them and they wouldn't make the necessary progress. Get some rest, she'll need you when she gets home! Hugs!!

Brightmeadowfarms said...

I'm sending prayers for your grandmother's continued recovery.